Is It OK To Let My Cat Sleep In My Bed?

Angela Vuckovic
by Angela Vuckovic
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Cats love to snooze, and they will often do it in the oddest of places: on top of the cupboard, behind the couch, on the window sill, in the armchair, and everywhere in between. Of course, the list of nap-friendly spots will most certainly include your own bed as well. But when is it ok to allow your feline friend to sleep in your bed? Many owners consider this to be a common practice, as their presence often provides comfort and warmth – nothing beats curling up to a purring cat on a chilly evening. However, some debate still exists regarding whether this is OK or not. And while the final decision is up to you, there are a few advantages and disadvantages that need to be considered before you make it.


Is It OK To Let My Cat Sleep In My Bed?


One of the most common reasons why people will sleep together with their cats is the emotional connection it provides. Cuddling a cat can be as effective as melatonin when it comes to putting you to sleep, and the rhythmic sound of a cat purring can be very soothing and will reduce your stress and anxiety, especially after a long day at work. Not to mention how warm they are – you feel toasty and snug as a bug when you sleep with your kitty next to you.


But even so, there are certain drawbacks to letting your cat sleep in your bed. One of the main concerns is how it would impact the quality of your sleep. Being nocturnal creatures and active at night, cats might jump on and off the bed at a whim, scratch, stretch, make noises, and generally disrupt your sleep. Having a restless night will affect your energy and productivity for the coming day.


Hygiene and cleanliness are also a worry. While generally clean animals, cats can still carry allergens, litter particles, dirt, and hair, all of which can end up in your bed and on your sheets. Owners that have asthma or certain allergies can really suffer because of this. And even if you make sure to groom your cat regularly, these things can still happen.

Another thing to consider is the fact that some cats could be territorial, or simply spoiled. Allowing them to sleep in your bed at all times could make them behave badly. They could be possessive of the bed, or even develop separation anxiety if they are not allowed to sleep there. As an owner, you have to establish clear boundaries with your pet. 


There are also some health issues to keep in mind, both for you and your cat. Large people who have a firm sleep could potentially roll over and squish their cat without even noticing it in time. Also important are zoonotic diseases, which are passed from animals to humans. They are rare, but still a possibility if you sleep with your pet.


Last – but not least – is the danger to your baby. If you have an infant, then it is not advisable for the cat to sleep in their bed. There is a small risk that a cat could accidentally smother an infant by lying too close or on them. 

In conclusion, while sharing a bed with your cat is usually fine, it’s not the ideal setup – your companion would be much better off if they slept in a bed of their own. After all, cat beds are designed specifically with their needs in mind, optimized to provide the proper support and comfort your pet needs – unlike your own bed.

Angela Vuckovic
Angela Vuckovic

A proud mama to seven dogs and ten cats, Angela spends her days writing for her fellow pet parents and pampering her furballs, all of whom are rescues. When she's not gushing over her adorable cats or playing with her dogs, she can be found curled up with a good fantasy book.

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